Rules

Hey there, naughty ones!

Welcome to our Rules page, where we lay down the guidelines that keep our sizzling events running smoothly and ensure everyone’s comfort and safety. At Summer’s Home for Wayward Swingers, we believe in creating a space that embraces the spirit of adventure and exploration, while also respecting boundaries and fostering a consensual environment. So, before you dive headfirst into the sea of passion and desire, let’s go over some rules that will help us all make the most of our unforgettable experiences. Remember, rules can be sexy too, especially when they set the stage for unforgettable moments of pleasure and connection. So, let’s get naughty, but with a touch of responsibility and respect!

 

Kisses 💋 Summer

Overall general info for Summer's Home for Wayward Swingers

Our utmost priority is to maintain a welcoming and secure environment for all attendees. While we encourage exploration and uninhibited enjoyment, we must also enforce certain boundaries to safeguard the collective experience. Please be aware that any violations of our rules, whether through repeated infractions or a single egregious act, may result in immediate removal from the event and a subsequent ban from future gatherings. We kindly ask all participants to respect these guidelines as they contribute to the harmony and integrity of our exclusive community. Let us embrace a journey of pleasure, consent, and unforgettable connections while upholding the principles that make Summer’s Home an extraordinary haven of seductive delights.

 

Please Note: This is not an exhaustive list.  We expect reasonable people to be reasonable.

Things like no violence, don’t misrepresent yourself or lie, and don’t choke out people without permission are things that shouldn’t have to be said so we wont waste your time saying them.  Do keep in mind that just because we don’t mention it here, doesn’t mean it wont get you kicked out of one of our events and/or banned from future ones if it is unreasonable.

No means no

Respect the word “no” and any indications of discomfort or withdrawal of consent. If someone declines your advances or requests, do not persist or pressure them in any way. Always prioritize and respect the boundaries of others.

Respect and consent

Always obtain explicit consent from all individuals involved in any sexual activity. Respect personal boundaries and do not engage in any activity without consent.

Single Male Policy

At Summer’s Home, we have a limited number of spots available for single men to attend our parties. Each potential attendee is carefully vetted by Summer to ensure they meet our strict standards of behavior and respect. Once vetted, single men are eligible to attend our parties on a first-come, first-served basis. However, please note that we maintain a no tolerance policy towards any behavior that disrespects or makes others feel uncomfortable. Any violation of our rules may result in immediate removal from the event and future parties. Our aim is to create a safe and enjoyable environment for all attendees.

 

For more information or if you are a single male interested in being vetted for a future party, please head to the Bull Pen to find out how

Consent is ongoing

Consent can be withdrawn at any time. If someone changes their mind or expresses discomfort during an activity, immediately stop and respect their decision.

Confidentiality and privacy

What happens at the party stays at the party. Respect the privacy and confidentiality of all attendees. Do not share or disclose any personal or identifying information without explicit permission.

No photography

Taking photographs or recording videos during events is strictly prohibited.

 

Preserving the sanctity of the experience and ensuring the utmost privacy for all attendees, we have a strict policy against capturing or sharing any photographs or videos during our events. This includes the play areas, where discretion and respect are of paramount importance. However, during the pre-party meet and greet or the mixer beforehand, you may take photos with explicit consent from the individuals involved.

 

We kindly request that you keep your phone tucked away throughout the event to maintain a comfortable and undisturbed atmosphere for everyone to fully indulge in the moment.

No nudity in public spaces or outside the venue

While the event may involve sexual activities, please refrain from public nudity or engaging in explicit acts in non-designated areas. Follow venue rules and be respectful of the surrounding environment.

Communication is key

Effective communication is vital. Clearly express your desires, interests, and boundaries, and actively listen to others. Open and honest communication helps create a safe and enjoyable environment for everyone.

Dress code

Please adhere to the designated dress code or theme for our events. We encourage you to dress to impress, showcasing your unique style and personality. Whether it’s elegant cocktail outfits for ladies, business casual attire for men, or embracing the event’s specific theme, let your fashion choices reflect the vibrant spirit of our gatherings.

 

For even more details please visit our dress code page

STD's and STI's

If you have an STI/STD (Sexually Transmitted Infection/Sexually Transmitted Disease) or suspect you may have one, please get it treated and have a clean screen before attending one of our events.  This includes HSV 1 or oral herpes, also known as cold sores.

 

We do not require recent SDI screens, but very much appreciate them being shared prior to the event.  Mike and Summer always have recent screens available for you to review if you would like.

Hygiene and cleanliness

Maintain good personal hygiene and cleanliness. Take care of your grooming, use appropriate protection, and practice safe sex. Condoms and other barrier methods should be readily available and utilized.

Responsible alcohol and drug use

Please consume alcohol responsibly and be mindful of your limits. Illegal Drug use, is strictly prohibited. Our events are BYOB (Bring Your Own Beverage), and we encourage responsible drinking. Excessive alcohol consumption or drug use may result in removal from the event and/or banning from future events.

Sexual activity may be taking place

Please be aware that sexual activity may be occurring at most events. If you are uncomfortable with or do not wish to participate in such activities, it is advised not to attend. We strive to create a safe, consensual, and inclusive environment for all attendees, and respecting everyone’s boundaries and comfort levels is of utmost importance.

Unleash Your Curiosity: Ask Us Anything About the Rules

Got a question about our rules? We’ve got the answers. Just ask below, and we’ll make sure you’re in the know. Your satisfaction and safety are our top priorities, so let’s dive into the details and make sure you’re fully prepared for the wild ride that awaits at Summer’s Home for Wayward Swingers. Fire away, and let the curiosity unfold!