FAQ

Summer’s Home for Wayward Swingers is an exclusive online community and event organization dedicated to embracing the swinger lifestyle. We provide a safe and inclusive space for open-minded individuals and couples to explore their desires, connect with like-minded individuals, and indulge in unforgettable experiences.

Most of our parties and events are “on premise” events.  This means that sexual activity may be (read “will be” 😉) occurring at most events. Be aware that you are not required to participate, but if you are uncomfortable with it then you are advised not to attend.

We strive to create a safe, consensual, and inclusive environment for all attendees, and respecting everyone’s boundaries and comfort levels is of utmost importance.

Our community welcomes individuals and couples who are interested in consensual non-monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, or the swinger lifestyle. This includes a very select few single men at each event (unless otherwise specified).  We encourage open-mindedness, respect, and a positive attitude towards exploring new boundaries.

To attend our exclusive events, simply view our events page and choose which one you would like to attend.  There you can RSVP and secure your spot at the exciting parties, retreats, and gatherings we organize.  You can make your donation using Credit Card, PayPal, or CashApp, but CashApp is our favorite for keeping things discreet. Plus, if you don’t already have an account, it’s super easy to set up—and you’ll snag a free $5 bonus with this link! If you choose to go with another payment method, just a heads up, there might be a small convenience fee to cover the extra charges.

There is a bull holding up the crest so, yes! Single men are allowed to attend Summer’s home parties, but only a very select few (currently only up to 5 depending on the ratio of couples and unicorns to bulls) are admitted to each event, unless otherwise specified.

These gentlemen must undergo a thorough vetting process, meeting Summer in person and satisfying her strict standards before gaining admission. Once vetted, they have the opportunity to attend any party on a first-come, first-served basis. However, it’s important to note that vetting can be revoked if a man violates our rules or if another member reports feeling uncomfortable around him.

If you are a single male interested in being vetted for a future party, please head to the Bull Pin to find out how

Yes, HSV-1, commonly known as oral herpes or a cold sore, is considered a sexually transmitted infection (STI) as it can be transmitted through intimate activities such as kissing, oral sex, or sharing personal items like utensils or lip balm. While HSV-1 primarily affects the mouth and lips, it can also be transmitted to the genital area through oral-genital contact, resulting in genital herpes.

Individuals with HSV-1 or oral herpes or any diagnosed or even suspected STD/STI (sexually transmitted disease/infection) are not eligible to attend any Summers Home events. We prioritize the safety and well-being of all our attendees, and this policy helps us maintain a respectful and inclusive environment. We understand that this may be disappointing for some, but it is a necessary measure to ensure the health and comfort of everyone involved. We appreciate your understanding and encourage you to explore other opportunities that align with your needs and preferences. If you have any further questions or concerns, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us.

Absolutely not! We believe in embracing individual comfort levels and desires within the lifestyle. While our events are designed to ignite passion and inclusivity, we fully respect and support consensual non-participation. Feel free to join in, mingle, or just soak in the electrifying energy of the room. Remember, open communication and mutual respect for boundaries are paramount.

Please keep in mind that specific events may have their own guidelines or rules regarding non-participation. We recommend checking the event details or reaching out to our team for further information. At Summer’s Home, we foster a judgment-free environment where everyone can explore their desires at their own pace.

Whether you choose to participate or observe, you’re an important part of our vibrant community. Indulge your curiosity, find your own path of pleasure and connection, and experience the unique ambiance that Summer’s Home has to offer.

Discretion and privacy are of utmost importance to us. We prioritize the confidentiality and anonymity of our members. Your personal information will be handled with the utmost care and will never be shared without your consent.

Yes, we have a set of rules and guidelines in place to ensure a safe and respectful environment for all our members. These guidelines include consent, communication, and mutual respect. We encourage everyone to familiarize themselves with our community guidelines to maintain a positive and enjoyable experience for all.

Summer’s Home provides various avenues for member interaction. Soon you will be able to participate in our online forums, join interest-based groups, and connect with other members through private messaging.

In the mean time we have a group on SDC called Summers Soiree where you can interact for now.

We also host regular events, parties, and retreats where you can meet and socialize with like-minded individuals in person.

Our events typically have specific dress codes or themes to enhance the overall atmosphere and experience. The dress code may vary from event to event, ranging from elegant and sophisticated to casual or themed attire. Details about the dress code will be provided in the event invitations or announcements.

We encourage attendees to embrace the dress code and showcase their personal style while being respectful and mindful of the venue’s guidelines. Dressing up adds to the excitement and helps create a vibrant and captivating ambiance for everyone to enjoy.

If it is a themed party, you do not have to dress for the theme but do please dress well.  Business casual is always acceptable for men.

For even more details please visit our dress code page

At Summers Home, we take the security and comfort of our guests seriously. We have implemented several measures to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for all attendees. One of these measures is the use of keycard access for our suites and even the elevators. This means that only authorized individuals with keycards can give access the party floor much less the party suites, creating an added layer of security and exclusivity. We prioritize the privacy and peace of mind of our guests, ensuring that undesirables are unable to even reach the party area.

Additionally, our meet & greet before each event serves as an opportunity to identify and connect with couples and individuals who are a good fit for our vibrant and respectful community. Our experienced staff is adept at recognizing troublemakers or those who may not align with our party atmosphere. This proactive approach helps us maintain a welcoming and safe environment for all attendees while reducing the risk of bad actors getting into the suites. Rest assured that we are dedicated to ensuring your security and providing an unforgettable experience at Summers Home.

At Summers Home, we understand the importance of maintaining a respectful ambiance for all our guests and the guests of the hotels we host our events at. While we encourage passion and lively energy, we also prioritize noise control. Our team closely monitors the noise levels to ensure they stay within reasonable limits. We strive to create an environment where everyone can fully enjoy themselves without disturbing others.

If at any point the noise becomes excessive, our staff will kindly remind guests to keep the volume at a considerate level. Your comfort and enjoyment are our utmost priority… we wouldnt want the normies out there getting bent out of shape teehee.

At Summers Home, we pride ourselves on creating a unique and extraordinary experience that sets us apart from a typical hotel floor takeover. While both types of events can offer a lively atmosphere, our parties are carefully curated to provide an intimate, luxurious, and highly exclusive environment.

Firstly, our events take place in our private suites, providing a more personal and exclusive setting. With a limited number of attendees, you can expect a more intimate and connected experience. Our suites are interconnected, creating a seamless flow between rooms and eliminating the need to navigate through public hotel spaces.

Furthermore, we prioritize the comfort, privacy, and security of our guests. We use keycard access for the suites and elevators, ensuring that only authorized individuals can access the party area. Our staff is highly trained to maintain a respectful and enjoyable atmosphere, and we carefully vet attendees to ensure a harmonious mix of like-minded individuals.

Lastly, Summers Home goes beyond just providing a venue for socializing and play. We create a community where guests can explore their desires, connect with others on a deeper level, and build lasting connections. We offer a range of amenities and services, from delectable lite bites and drinks to massage tables and fun adult games, to enhance your experience and make every moment memorable.

At Summers Home, we celebrate the freedom of sexual expression and understand that each individual has their own comfort level and desires. Our events are designed to create a sexually charged and inclusive atmosphere where attendees have the freedom to play, mingle, observe, or simply enjoy the electrifying energy of the room. We respect and embrace the concept of consensual non-participation, allowing everyone to explore their desires at their own pace.

While some attendees may engage in intimate connections and choose to have sex with multiple partners at the same time, it’s important to remember that participation is always consensual and based on the boundaries and desires of all involved. We provide a judgment-free space where you can embrace your desires, whether that means engaging in intimate experiences with multiple partners or simply enjoying the freedom to connect with others in your own way.

So whether you’re seeking to explore your wildest fantasies or simply want to immerse yourself in the energy of the room, our events offer a welcoming and inclusive environment where you can find your own path of pleasure and connection.

You will always be welcome at Summer’s Home!

While our events attract a diverse and vibrant community, it’s important to note that not everyone may know each other. We welcome both new and returning attendees, creating an exciting blend of familiar faces and new connections. Summers Home is built on the foundation of inclusivity and open-mindedness, fostering an environment where everyone can explore their desires and connect with like-minded individuals. Whether you’re attending with a partner or solo, our events offer the perfect opportunity to meet new people, make connections, and build memorable experiences. So come join us, and let the magic of connection unfold in the company of both familiar faces and new friends.

A Seasonal Soiree at Summer’s Home is the epitome of lavish celebration, and it happens once every quarter, ensuring there’s never a dull moment in your calendar! 🍾🥂

Picture this: A grand, larger-than-life party that ignites the spirit of each season. It’s a dazzling extravaganza that takes place around the most significant party holiday of that time of year. For instance, our 2023 Q3 Soiree, we had the Galactic Gala, is a sci-fi costume party that was out of this world! 🚀🪐

At a Seasonal Soiree, you’ll find yourself immersed in a world of opulence, sophistication, and unbridled pleasure. It’s an opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals and couples, indulge in your desires, and celebrate life in the most decadent fashion. 🌟🥂🎉

So, whether you’re donning sci-fi attire for the Galactic Gala or dressing to the nines for a Black Tie Event, each Seasonal Soiree promises an unforgettable journey through the seasons of pleasure and passion. Join us, and let’s make memories that sizzle all year long!